I noticed the man running towards me on the bike trail. He was exerting great effort but making
almost no progress. It is a great
illusion some people are able to pull off. They appear to be running with limbs flailing, yet they are
somehow moving more slowly than any other person would while walking. It was cold, so the man had on a knit
hat and heavy sweatshirt to compensate for his exposed legs in shorts. His face was a bright pink from the
cold. His glasses were fogged
over. He had the appearance of a
middle aged man unaccustomed to exercise, as if his doctor had told him in a
stern tone “Bill, you are going to need to start some sort of cardio exercise
if you hope to see age 60”. He was
now trying to undo 40 years of stagnation.
The man stopped his locomotion (I still can’t call it
“running”). He leaned down to make
himself available to the bassets.
“Sir? What do you call this
breed of dog?” His use of language
was odd, like this wasn’t his native tongue, but he had no discernible accent. I told him that these were basset
hounds. “Yes! That’s right! Basset hounds!”
I explained how we normally walked the woods, but it was too muddy
today. Regardless of the weather,
these hounds expected their long Sunday walk. “Yes… It is
good to go hiking and such in the wilderness. It is important to find time for wilderness.” He looked at me directly as if
remembering something of great importance.
“A family friend… a woman… She will have great outbursts at almost anything. She… Even if she saw you standing here now, she would begin to
yell at you with great volume. And
it can be about anything!
Anything! Always arguing
about small things with strangers.”
His expression changed slightly as he read my face. I was struggling to see how this
connected to basset hounds or the muddy conditions of the woods. Something wasn’t quite right about this
man. He was non-threatening, but
something was just off. Yet he was
dressed like a dorky suburban everyman.
He was everyone and no one.
He was indistinguishable from the herd until he started talking.
“She was backpacking in Montana.” He then made a motion as
if he was carrying a heavy backpack.
“While she was walking, a rock came loose from the cliff above her. It rolled all the way down an struck
her in the head!” He made a motion
to indicate a rock hitting his temple and even threw in the head recoil to
emphasize the point. I still had no
idea where this was going and said “Wow.
What are the odds? To be
walking by at that instant?” He
leaned in to me and lowered his voice slightly. “Her family said that they noticed this behavior of hers
starting a couple of years after the hiking accident. The doctors say that there is nothing they can do, because
it is the brain! They can’t just
go in there and fix it…”
He paused, as if this were the great reveal of the
story. I wasn’t sure how to
respond and looked at him, wondering if there was more. I tried to figure out why he had
brought this up out of the blue to a stranger walking two basset hounds. He looked slightly panicked, as if he
realized he had offered no context or link to our present situation. He could feel that this wasn’t going as
he had planned. “Well, when I
heard about that I went out and bought a helmet for when I ride my bike.” He nodded, looking for me to confirm
his wisdom for avoiding future brain injury from random falling rocks.
I stated the obvious.
“You know, that didn’t happen to her on a bike. She was just walking. If you want that helmet plan to work,
you are going to have to wear it all the time.” He looked at me with great seriousness, considering the flaw
in his safety scheme. I could see
him weigh his risk right now at this moment, wondering if a rock or tree limb
would suddenly fall from the sky onto his head. He hadn’t considered how exposed he was to danger at this
moment. An expression of worry
creased his forehead.
I started to walk away from him, the dogs eager to
continue. A thought hit me. I turned back to him. “Your problem then will be you are
going to be known as The Weird Dude In The Helmet.” I thought he would give a little laugh. Instead, he nodded at me as he turned
to continue his “run”. He was now
deep in thought weighing the positives of helmet safety versus the potential for
further becoming a social pariah in his bike helmet. There was much to consider.
I look forward to walking the bassets down that path next
week at about the same time. I
wonder if I will see a man chugging towards me in shorts and a bike
helmet. If I do, I look forward to
a chat. That man that has things
to say.
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